MY 10 KOBO

Even though physical attraction matters, making it the foundation of your relationship/marriage will land you into trouble.

Marriage is a big deal, it takes a lot of maturity, compromise and sacrifice to keep a home.

My experience as a matchmaker made it clear to me that the rate of divorce in our society is increasing these days because people are  marrying wrongly.

If the major reason you are marrying that lady is because of her boobs, straight leg, fine face or back side, and you close your eyes to all her enormous flaws just because you cant resist the breast, Don't blame anyone for your problems When you are faced with the reality called marriage.

If all that makes you commit your life into a marriage is because the man is tall, handsome or rich, don't blame the devil when he shows up in your home as your father in law.

Is Tolu saying those qualities are bad? NO! What I'm saying is that it takes more than those, to keep a home. Godliness is a virtue, commitment is a plus, compatibility is a must and attitude is a determinant.

Don't be fooled into a long life commitment because of physical attraction alone, marry what drives a man not what he drives, no one is perfect but we can all work towards perfection. My 10kobo!

May God guide your steps this week in Jesus name!

-Tolu