Proverb 31: 10-31
Becoming the best for your children:
1. Train your children in the way of the Lord
2. Take good care of your female child
3. Make your children trust you enough to tell u anything
4. Be a role model, be the best for your children, don't fight, argue, keep malice
Becoming the best for yourself and your husband husband:
Another very interesting meaning of the best is, most satisfactory, most suitable, most desirablle, someone who tops all othersas you strive to be the best for your partner, you are equally improving yourself:
1. Improve yourself mentally and socially
2. Improve yourself physically
3. Be proud of yourself, don't look down on yourself,
4. Communicate calmly clearly and directly, express your feelings, don't expect your husband to be a mind reader( a man who can read the silence of a woman
5. Prepare yourself before his arrival every evening
6. Don't greet him with complains and problems
7. Accept him for who he is, respect him, let him be the man
8. Learn to forgive
9. Hygiene Esther 2:9-12. You have to be attracted to a woman b4 u start thinking of love,some hv lost dat attraction.
9. Learn how to kiss. Songs of Solomon 1:2, 4:11. Some kissed last during honeymoon,smooth lips, tilt head yo one side, suck d lips, not too much saliva, touch d body, look in dface, then close ur eyes wen head is tilt,roll d tongues ,
10. Have an active sex life: SOS 4:16
Sex bond couple together both physically and spiritually ( A) physically: the power of oxytocin , a hormone released during lovemaking, when both partner reached orgasm( talk about orgasm) . ( B) Spiritually: 1 Corinthians 6: 15-20
A sexually unsatisfied man will be angry, has feelings of rejection
Have an interesting sex life: learn how yo touch a woman's breast prov5:18, take charge too, to the men find out if you are satisfying her sexually, she could be dying in silence,married women masturbating and the men cheating.(shame)
Lost of partner could be devastating nd has psychological effect, occupy ur mind with Godly things if you can cope, if someone loves u , ur happiness becomes their priority, so if u decide to move on, he /she will understand meanwhile it's appointed unto man to die once
11. Make God the center of your marriage
To the men: you might not be her perfect guy but you can be the best thing she ever knew
Your marital destiny can reshape your Godly destiny,
The best is someone that pleases you more than the restYou need to be the best for God before you can succeed in the secular world.
The difference between who you are and who you want yo be is the work you put in it
Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment
A. You need God:psalm 33:4-6
God knows you before u were made from your mothers womb, so you need to let him lead you, don't make decision and try to drag God to it:
A. Dream no matter how promising
B. Husband/ wife no matter how real, trying to help urself by sleeping with a man won't work
C. Business/ job no mater how huge the amount of money is
B. Becoming the best for your world
Start doing something
Be persistence
Strive to be the best in your field
You should be mature Gen 2:24
C. Making the best choice in marriage
Don't have sex to get a man
Don't be too conscious about money
Don't waste your youthfulness
Occupy your mind and time with Godly and profitable ventures
D. Becoming the best in marriage:
1. Make your spouse your first priority: over boss,parents, kids etc, don't focus on being a great parent.... And....
2. See a counselor, ur pastor, read a book, watch romantic movies together not porn,attend seminars on sex if that is ur issue
3. Go on dates, movies, ice cream etc
4.Communicate
5. Intimacy include sex
6. Divorce is not an option mattew 19:5' mark10:8
--TOLU
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