“ WAYS TO STOP FIGHTING ABOUT SEX”
For the women, You need to understand the importance of sex in your marriage and why your husband is demanding for it more than you do, he is just being a man. Incase you are wondering why he keeps asking for sex more than you, bear it in mind that his body system is different from yours.
Now this goes to the singles, you need to know that ‘Intimate Talk With Tolu’ doesn't support premarital sex, this is because it is against the will of God, doing lot of damages to our society and those involved in the act. This article will help you to solve about 95% of your marital issues by saying good bye to poor and boring sex life in your marriage. Let me say this to the men, you need to learn how to make your wife look forward to having sex with you, this is where the problem lies, most couples has problem in balancing the contradicting situation, where the woman is not looking forward to sex and the man wants it all the time, that is why you keep fighting about sex in your marriage. Now I am going to tell you how to stop this contradiction, how the two of you can come to a neutral term so you can start enjoying sex in your marriage. There are some things you need to know about sex, it is a powerful tool in marriage, more than just a physical exercise and highly spiritual take it from me or not.
A lot of marriages are in crisis even when the couples don’t want to admit it, and most of this crisis are sex related. I want you to know that God is the originator sex, He wants you to enjoy it in your marriage, don’t think it is a sin when you are involve in sex as married couples, its worse if you keep malice and you start cheating on your partner, of course cheating is not a solution to your marital crisis all you need to do is to understand the principle guiding marriages, good enough, that is why Aunty Tolu is here.
This is what you need to know about sex, each time a woman or a man reaches”fulfillment” generally know as ‘orgasm’ oxytocin is released into the brain and the body in quantities that promotes bonding between the people this means that the more a couple have sexual fulfillment the more they bond with each other, they become more close and more attached to each other, in other words the reason why you have fight, nagging etc is because you don’t have sexual fulfillment in your marriage. Another thing you need to know is that testosterone, one of the hormones responsible for sex drive is 20-40 percent higher in men than women, though not always the case, but commonly it is normal for men to desire sex more than women, that is how their body is wired, biologically it is so. So if your husband is asking for sex more than you do, it is because of the hormones
Men tend to determine intimacy as the form of union or physical activities, while women tend to see intimacy as sharing emotions bond, the warm, the closeness the vulnerabilities, and then, when a man is not getting enough of what he tends intimacy to be he begins to think the woman is straying, to a man the only way you can tell him you love him is to give him sex. these relative individual differences you between the men and the women need to be understood.
