People develop their character and temperamental while growing up, the personality we grew up to become has a lot to do with our upbringing, culture, religion, environment etc.
It takes special grace and firm determination for one to change the character he/she has become after 25 or 30 years, and this change can only be achieved by the personality involved with support and encouragement from someone he/she loved, it can never be achieved by force or fighting.
If you understand this, you will concentrate more on learning to live with the personality God has packaged for you and not try to change them, you will be happier that way. And with your love, compassion, understanding and prayer, they will be personally compelled and convinced to make ammends.
Im not talking about encouraging bad habits but understanding and respecting the fact that we are all different and unique in our own ways. "Mowa foniwa lonje orejore". If we all act and think the same way, its gonna be a boring world. May God give us understanding in these things.
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