Introduction: You need to understand the importance of sex in marriage and why your husband keep asking for it more than you do, he's just been a man.
Most men Ned to learn how to make their wife keep looking forward to sex.
Each time a man or woman reaches fulfillment,oxytocin is released to the brain and body in quantities that promote bonding between the two people, the more a married couple have sexual fulfillment (each of them fulfilled) the more they bond with each other,they become more close and attached.
Testerone, one of the hormone responsible for sex drive is 20-40 percent higher in men than women, though not always the case bt is common and normal for men to desire sex more than women.
Men tend to determine intimacy as a form of action like sexual union or physical activities for the women why women tend to see intimacy as sharing emotional bond, warm, closeness and vulnerabilities so when a man is not getting enough of what he termed intimacy he begins to think the woman is straying.
1. COMMUNICATE : Fighting is different from communicating, you need to talk about it calmly and rationally, consider the make ego when you are trying to talk about this. Wether one of you is not getting what you want, or you have different sex drive or whatever the reason is open discussion and honesty is the solution to avoid fight. No mater how difficult it is u have to talk about it.
2.COMPROMISE: It's difficult for the 2 of u to be at the same page all the time,maybe one prefer sex in d day time, for example like the truck driver who called d other day, or one like it done with the light on, or one hate to be touched while sleeping, or differences in styles or frequencies, men can compromise by helping the wife wif some household chores wen u know u r planning to have sex later in d nite nd women can compromise by doing it once in a while wen not in d mood.
3. FIX WHAT IS NOT WORKING: you don't like d way he jump into action before foreplay, you don't enjoy it atall, there's smt she's not doing, u dnt like d smell ( talk bat a client who complain bat d husband ,she always want him to bath b4 sex) instead of getting into argument over same issue every time u wanna make love, try and fix d problem.
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