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Only a foundation that stands on Christ solid rock remains forever. The devil comes not but to steal , kill and destroy. Tragedy struck at the Onikolobo area of Abeokuta, Ogun State on Saturday when a 33-year-old man, Oluwatosin Otaiku, stabbed himself to death after his fiancee, Olaogun Oluwatoyin, discontinued the relationship.

Otaiku killed himself after his woman told him she was no longer interested in the relationship. After the girlfriend made a U-turn, the deceased was said to have become worried, and this made neighbours, who were aware of the development, to intervene. Efforts were made to reconcile them.On one of such occasions, an eyewitness said the duo was invited to discuss in privacy inside a shop at Safari junction in Onikolobo. Otaiku was said to have hid a knife in his pocket, prepared to end it all if there was no truce...

BUILDING A GODLY HOME

Merriam-Webster dictionary defines building as an act or process of making structures by putting together materials. We can therefore say building a Godly home is an act or process of making homes by putting together materials.

Acts are the steps and actions you take toward achieving a goal: to every action there's a reaction, and what you sow is what you reap, this rule is also applicable to marriage, the actions and steps you take to get married will determine your destination, that is your goal.

Materials are the contents or substance of which something is composed. This indicates that there are some qualities your home is expected to have as a Christian, we should be the model that people of the world are looking up to. 1st Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ. (1 Corinthians 11:1 KJV)

Whosoever cometh to me, and heareth my sayings, and doeth them, I will shew you to whom he is like: He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock. But he that heareth, and doeth not, is like a man that without a foundation built an house upon the earth; against which the stream did beat vehemently, and immediately it fell; and the ruin of that house was great. (Luke 6:47-49 KJV)

Let me now say that acts are the action you take to achieve a Godly home and a beautiful marriage, this will be very useful to the single and could also be applicable to those who got married for wrong reasons, there's room for amendments and repentance  in the kingdom.  There are so many points to be mentioned here but I will give just 5 very important ones.

BE A LADY!

Its just natural for a man to chase, he has an ego, this ego is boosted when he's able to conquer his prey, there's something in him that makes him feel like a real man when this mission is accomplished.

It is d other way round for a woman, she loves to be chased, she feels cool and happy when a man is trying to woo her, she smiles when she sights him coming again and again and again.

She enjoy d thrills of being chased, she blush when he says sweet things about her and tell her how beautiful she's looking.

But what baffles me these days is how hard d female folks are trying to change the natural law, ladies turning around and doing the chasing, beautiful young ladies throwing their body at men whether single or married.

When it come to sex, it takes an extremely disciplined and God fearing man to turn his back at a naked lady, men are moved by what they see. The hormones in him make him loose control and his sense of reasoning when a pointed boobs is staring at him, but its not so with a woman.

An erection or a six pack no matter how endowed will not turn a woman on unless she feels something for the man, have you ever wondered why its so?

Its because d women possess the gold mine, the honey pot that the men desire, and she's suppose to be on the defensive, protect her territory and make it valuable.

What I'm I really saying this morning, ladies, please let the men do the chasing, cover up a bit, let him struggle to see what is inside the clothes, stop chasing after men, its abnormal, stop pursuing the male folks, let him be the man, it makes him feel better when he does the chasing, it add values to you and give him the courage to get closer.

Stop throwing your body at him, it makes you look cheap and funny enough it makes him look weak too. Its not outdated to be a lady that God has created you to be, he that finds a wife, find a good thing.... Give him the opportunity to be favoured by God.

My 10kobo!
- TOLU
Have a descent week ahead.
Tolu is a relationship, Sex & Marriage Counsellor, Speaker and Matchmaker.
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