BE A LADY!

Its just natural for a man to chase, he has an ego, this ego is boosted when he's able to conquer his prey, there's something in him that makes him feel like a real man when this mission is accomplished.

It is d other way round for a woman, she loves to be chased, she feels cool and happy when a man is trying to woo her, she smiles when she sights him coming again and again and again.

She enjoy d thrills of being chased, she blush when he says sweet things about her and tell her how beautiful she's looking.

But what baffles me these days is how hard d female folks are trying to change the natural law, ladies turning around and doing the chasing, beautiful young ladies throwing their body at men whether single or married.

When it come to sex, it takes an extremely disciplined and God fearing man to turn his back at a naked lady, men are moved by what they see. The hormones in him make him loose control and his sense of reasoning when a pointed boobs is staring at him, but its not so with a woman.

An erection or a six pack no matter how endowed will not turn a woman on unless she feels something for the man, have you ever wondered why its so?

Its because d women possess the gold mine, the honey pot that the men desire, and she's suppose to be on the defensive, protect her territory and make it valuable.

What I'm I really saying this morning, ladies, please let the men do the chasing, cover up a bit, let him struggle to see what is inside the clothes, stop chasing after men, its abnormal, stop pursuing the male folks, let him be the man, it makes him feel better when he does the chasing, it add values to you and give him the courage to get closer.

Stop throwing your body at him, it makes you look cheap and funny enough it makes him look weak too. Its not outdated to be a lady that God has created you to be, he that finds a wife, find a good thing.... Give him the opportunity to be favoured by God.

My 10kobo!
- TOLU
Have a descent week ahead.
Tolu is a relationship, Sex & Marriage Counsellor, Speaker and Matchmaker.
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