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Understanding
a woman might be a very tedious task to achieve, because sometimes the woman
does not even understand herself. A woman is
a special being, fragile but full of strength, so compassionate but could be
ruthless, very simple but also complex, you can't just understand her. You find
it difficult to live with her and you can't also live without her. Trying to
understand a woman is like a camel trying to pass the hole of a niddle, concentrate
on what get you attracted to her and tolerate her flaws with love. When a woman
is in love, she will go the extra mile, give her your heart and she will give
you her world. Appreciate the woman in your life to see her beauty and not her
wrath!
Even when the woman is the bread winner, she can still
maintain her position as a loving and warm woman that she is only if certain
principles are followed. How then does one make marriage work, when the woman
is the bread winner?
1. Trust
her: this is where the major problem lies, because of the male ego, it’s
difficult for most men to accept the fact that a woman who goes out in the
morning and come back at night can be faithful especially when she’s the bread
winner and the husband is probably at home always. She needs to be trusted, let
not the financial problem lower your self esteem as a man, don’t suspects her
colleagues and partners. When a woman loves you, she will stay with you all the
way, even though she might nag, she will always come back to her senses. Reading
meaning to her every move is very wrong.
2. Encourage
her: A woman’s role is supportive and not to carry the whole family burden, but
when situations like this arises, life must definitely go on, and the only way
for it to go on smoothly is to encourage the woman. Making her feel like what she’s
doing is not a big deal can make her go naught; she needs a lot of reassurance
and encouragement. Ordinarily, women love sweet words, they are moved by what
they hear, that’s why smooth talking men always have the best of women. So it’s
important to encourage her, appreciate her and let her understand you know what
she’s going through.
3. Assist her:
Even though this is difficult in this part of the world, a woman whose shoulder
the sole responsibility of the home rest on needs assistance. If you can cook,
please do, if you can help with the kids, don’t fail to do so, this will make
things run smoothly and not get her overwhelmed. Do not feel you are doing
these stuffs because she’s feeling big as the bread winner, do it because you
love her and you want things to run smoothly in the house.
4. Avoid 3rd
party: People will talk, and if you listen to their jargons, your mind will be
polluted. If you can keep what happens in your home between the two of you, it
will go a long way.
5. Be the
woman that you are: this point is for the women, the strength of a woman lies
in her softness, not in muscle flexing like men. Men has ego like I have said
before, trying to be the man because the husband is incapacitated will ruin the
marriage.
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