1. NEW RELATIONSHIP IS THE BEST CURE FOR A HEARTBREAK: It doesn't work that way, you need to sit down and analyze your past mistakes and work on how not to repeat such . You need time to be alone to be emotionally ready for another. Looking for a shoulder to lean on in another relationship during heartbreak could lead to another break up. Especially for those who lostbtheir partner and are bereaved , an opposite sex could take advantage of ur unstable emotions.
2. ALL MEN ARE ANIMALS/ ALL MEN ARE THE SAME: people often refers to men as animals but the truth is that men have control over their emotions if they want to. Do not use your past experience( s) to categorize all men. Not all men cheats!
3. LOVE IS ALL THAT MATTERS IN RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE: even though all other virtues are attached to love, but they are also very important on their own, virtues likevtolerance, humility, dedication, sacrifice, etc. We need to know that it takes more than love to spend the rest of your life with another or should I say, love is more than a mere feelings, it's determination
4. PHYSICAL ATTRACTION DOES NOT MATTER: if you are not attracted, you will get pissed easily, every man/ woman has one or two things he/ she likes in the opposite sex, you are likely to cheat if you neglect those things while making your choice.
5. BODY EXPOSURE MAKES YOU MORE ATTRACTIVE: it could make you sexy, ( infect) some men doesn't find that sexy but most time no man will want to takebyou to mama, you don't need to expose your body b4 you can attract the opposite sex
6. ALL MEN MUST EITHER SMOKE, DRINK OR WOMANISE,: You have power over all these things as a man, so it's a matter of choice, not all men does that
8. COHABITATION LEADS TO GOOD MARRIAGE: totally false, infact law of cohabitation says people who lives together before making formal commitment are likely to divorce. It's not a guarantee that you will know the real him/ her, human beings pretends a lot.
7. NO ONE NEEDS A COUNSELLOR ORVA COUPLE THERAPIST: the word of God says in the multitude of counsel, one cannot stray, we all need a shoulder to lean on, we all need someone to talk to. Talking to a professional counselors could help to normalize things
8. SEXUAL ACTIVITIES FOSTERS RELATIONSHIPS: you can never use sex to tie down a man. The fact that you are good in bed doesn't make you a marriage material.
9. PREGNANCY BEFORE MARRIAGE IS AN INDICATION OF BEING FERTILE: only God is the giver of life
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