PLEASE ADVICE ME

We met in 2009, we were both young and seriously in love,I decided to go and see her uncle to ask for her hand in marriage because her father was late. The uncle response, was that, it takes more than love to get married, that we should go and get something doing first before thinking of marriage. That day, we both talked and made up our minds that we are going to make it work, I was a cab driver then and she was trying to get admission into the university,I was motivated by the uncle's advice and decided to go back to school while I was still driving my cab to support myself. she also gained admission into poly and i was the one paying most of the bills. Now, I have graduated from my university and she is currently living with me doing her I.T, before I forget I'm almost done with the bungalow that am building,all these to actualize our dream and make her comfortable. Now this is the issue, within this 2-3years while I was struggling for us, I just discovered that she has been messing around. Let me not bore you with details, to cut it short, I found out that she has slept with 17 different men, and these are just the ones I know about, i love this lady genuinely and I'm not sure i can do without her, she is beautiful inside out, presentable, homely, very caring, she is also very good in bed. I spoke with some of these men she slept with, some of them, I have details of how they made love to her, I have lots of their chat details on social network, in fact I have pictures and all these is driving me crazy. I discovered all her escapades few months back because she was still doing it even when living with me, I became a walking corpse and almost lost my life because of the heart break, until we decided to go for counseling with aunts Tolu for counseling. After the counseling sections, things became normal, to my greatest surprise she completely changed to a decent woman, she kept crying, begging and regretting all her actions. Right now we are planning our wedding, but this is the problem, I can't get all her past life off my head the pictures kept flashing in my brain and am almost loosing my mind . I don't know if this feeling will go away or will remain like this for the rest of my life. I don't know if the love I have for her can suppress these thought am having as AuntyTolu asked, I also don't know if I have known or seen too much like AuntyTolu also said. Please advice me.....

IM CONFUSED

We met in 2009, we were both young and seriously in love,I decided to go and see her uncle to ask for her hand in marriage because her father was late. The uncle response, was that, it takes more than love to get married, that we should go and get something doing first before thinking of marriage. That day, we both talked and made up our minds that we are going to make it work, I was a cab driver then and she was trying to get admission into the university,I was motivated by the uncle's advice and decided to go back to school while I was still driving my cab to support myself. she also gained admission into poly and i was the one paying most of the bills. Now, I have graduated from my university and she is currently living with me doing her I.T, before I forget I'm almost done with the bungalow that am building,all these to actualize our dream and make her comfortable. Now this is the issue, within this 2-3years while I was struggling for us, I just discovered that she has been messing around. Let me not bore you with details, to cut it short, I found out that she has slept with 17 different men, and these are just the ones I know about, i love this lady genuinely and I'm not sure i can do without her, she is beautiful inside out, presentable, homely, very caring, she is also very good in bed. I spoke with some of these men she slept with, some of them, I have details of how they made love to her, I have lots of their chat details on social network, in fact I have pictures and all these is driving me crazy. I discovered all her escapades few months back because she was still doing it even when living with me, I became a walking corpse and almost lost my life because of the heart break, until we decided to go for counseling with aunts Tolu for counseling. After the counseling sections, things became normal, to my greatest surprise she completely changed to a decent woman, she kept crying, begging and regretting all her actions. Right now we are planning our wedding, but this is the problem, I can't get all her past life off my head the pictures kept flashing in my brain and am almost loosing my mind . I don't know if this feeling will go away or will remain like this for the rest of my life. I don't know if the love I have for her can suppress these thought am having as AuntyTolu asked, I also don't know if I have known or seen too much like AuntyTolu also said. Please advice me.....

IM MARRIED BUT IN LOVE WITH MY EX, PLS HELP!

I am married with kids.my husband is an amazing dad and very caring.we are very good friends but we are not intimate,we have been married for about 5years now and we have not french kissed for 3years now.
at the begininng of our marriage,he was really cheating on me,which i found out a number of times but i stood by him.One day,i ran into my childhood sweetheart and we xchanged numbers,we startes chatting on old times and i found myself falling in love with him again.We planned on hooking up with noplans of doing anything,but we found ourselves kissing.He said he never stopped loving me and he will forever love me.
since that day we have had sex like 5 times ,even though sometimes we cry about it bcos we know it is wrong but we are madly in love.
my husband and i dont have sex anymore,i have stopped seeing my ex but i think of him all the time.
i have prayed,but my heart is still with my ex.i need help ,no insults please,i av been decent all my life its just unfortunate

I NEED HELP

I'm 25 years. I have a female friend who is 4 years older than I am. She has Masters' Degree while I'm just a HND holder.
We met on facebook and we became friends because we answer the same surname.
I'm from Nigeria while she is from Rep. Of Benin.
We are so close that people think we are dating. She's always around me. We go to work together, we return together because she stays close to where I live.
I love her so much that I'm willing to do anything to have her but the problem there is that she's not ready to accept my proposal. We've been on this since April 2011.
She's always with me and goes home very late in the night. The earliest time she leaves is 10:15pm. She stays as late as 11pm at times yet she keeps turning me down telling she can't date me.
She told me she's older than I am and is not ready to date someone younger than she is. Also, her immediate younger sister is 2 years older than I am.
She does not have a boyfriend neither do I have a serious relationship.
My profile picture on facebook is a picture we took together while her profile picture on facebook is another picture we took together.
To me, she doesn't give room for guys to ask her out. If she's not @ home, she's with me.
The Wednesday preceding new year (28th December, 2011), I was with her in my room and she raised the issue of me being single. I told her I'm not interested in anyone. Later, I told her I still want her. She told me NO that it's not possible. I felt so sad and down that I could not hold it to myself.
While being emotional, we found ourselves kissing for the first time. She left later without us going beyond the kissing.
The next day while returning from work, she checked on me and while she was about leaving, we kissed again! This time it lasted more than 20mins! I was shocked! On getting outside, she told me she has no feelings for me and she was doing those things for me to feel comfortable.
I am in love and I'm willing to do anything to keep her to myself.
I told her I intend getting married in 2013 and she told me she intends getting married the same year 2013!
Up till now, we talk for for like an hour in a day, chat on bbm all day.
The closeness is more than ever.
Kindly help me with your advice.

TO ALL THE BEAUTIFUL LADIES IN THE HOUSE!

TO ALL THE BEAUTIFUL LADIES IN THE HOUSE!

Are men stronger than women?
Oh Please!!
Can you bleed for a week and survive?
Can you squeeze a 14 inch baby from a 10 Centimeter Hole?
Can you carry a 7pound baby in your stomach for 9months?
Can you take care of a child, cook, clean AND talk on the phone @ one time?
Can you carry a 108 lb shopping bag?
Can you go a week only eating salad?
Can you face heartbreak?
Can you watch the love of your life be with some one else?
Can you burn your forehead with a curling iron and not complain?
Can you wear a string in your ass all day?
Can you walk all day in 5 inch heels?
Can you produce milk when you not a cow?
Can you make a boneless flesh strong?
Can you cry all night then wake up the next morning like everything is okay? I don't think so..Ladies pass this on..its not easy being you!!much respect.

HOW TO CARESS

HOW TO CARESS

 Sex is great but its important to know and understand that most people not all won't ever reach the sex portion if it weren't for the sensual carreses that led to that point.
When in a relationship where both people are emotionally and physically attracted to each other, it is important to show affection. There are several ways to do this, but caressing may be the most affective. To caress someone is to show them how you care for them, how special they are, and a simple way of communicating love or strong liking. How to caress is very important, and your significant other will appreciate it if done properly.
In our rush to reach our goals, we often times forget how we got there. Later in the relationship, those little things get completely forgoten because the goal has already been reached.
So if you want the spark back in your relationshp, bring back the sensual caresses. The soft touch at the nape of the neck. The slight caress with your fingers across a man's wrist. A man moving his fingers ever so gently up a woman's leg. The soft touch on a man's check right before a kiss. The light touch on a woman's lower back arch as you hold a door open for her. Moving a wisp of hair away from someone's forehad while looking passionately into their eyes.

Without these sensual caresses, the act of love making just becomes boring and inconsequential. We must treat our partners similar to the way we treat a car. You would never drive your car without warming it up or making sure it has its proper oil change. Otherwise the car wouldn't act as good as you would want it. In some cases, the car would actually conk out on you in the middle of the road. Well your partner if not handled in the right way, can also conk out.
Sensual caresses will get you to where you want to go!
1. Caressing does not just mean physical contact. In fact, a very seductive form of caressing can be done with the eyes. Taking a long and deep look into your partner's eyes will make them feel special, and will most likely lead to them wanting to be caressed by you... or they may want to caress you.
2. An easy way to begin caressing someone is through a hug. Rub their back affectionately, and slowly make your way to their shoulders. There, use your fingers to gently run across their skin, then up and down their arms.
3. Look into their eyes (do not glance away), and cup their face with one of your hands.
4. Use your thumbs to caress their cheeks. Next, use your index finger to softly touch their lips. From here, you can feel other parts of their face, and use both hands if they seem to enjoy that.
5. Another way to caress your partner has to do with just hands. You can glide your fingers across their palms and through their fingers, and can also do this as though it was tickling. The great thing about this is that it can be done in public. No, it is not the disgusting thing people call "hand sex", it is simply caressing your partner's hands.